And then they will proceed to ask me if he is the only child at home.
This always makes me feel like a failure in bringing him up. But most of the time he doesnt exhibit these behaviours at home so i couldnt correct him.
I wanna end my friday being a loving mom and spending happy moments with him but my mood had to change because i felt the need to correct him and explain to him what he did was wrong. Then again i wasnt there to see what exactly happen to judge and have a plan on how to teach him.
Isit a social stigma that only ONLY child pushes friends and display such behaviours or is this part of growing up? Do kids with siblings do these too? Doesnt mean i have a sibling i wont be a selfish kid. Or that i am naturally more tolerant just bcos i have siblings.
Why does everyone or majority of the people always presurize ppl to have more than 1 kid. Reason being: your child will be lonely, when they grow up at least they have a company, or when u grow old your child dont have to shoulder the burden of supporting you 2 alone. It will be hard on him mentally and financially.
Isit wrong to just want 1 child?
And then i have ppl telling me that if i were to get another dog, den i should have another child instead of dog. Bcos dog cannot compare to a kid. A kid will grow up. And then i shouldnt split my love for aiden and focus on dog. Even 30% is also split. But hello if i have another kid i probably will neglect aiden by 80% bcos of the new kid?!
