Wednesday, 25 April 2018

First scan - Hearing the heartbeat

There are many times i self doubt if im really pregnant because it just doesnt feel real except the fact that my menses is not here. Lol.

We decided to go ahead with ahjess's gynae Dr A L LIM from Thomson Medical cause.. we are quite lazy to do research and ahjess say her one not bad hahaha.

First appointment was booked on my week 8 (so can hear baby heartbeat).. 3 long weeks i had to keep it from my parents despite seeing them every week.. so torturous.

Came 14th April 2018 - This is when the reality kicks in when we legit see the baby bean inside my womb and hearing the sibeh fast heartbeat at 180p/min. Like a " dook dook dook dook dook", le hub hear already his heart beat oso "dook dook dook dook dook" 😆
It was quite an emotional (?) and touching moment lah to find out that this lil one is growing well and erm, a lil bigger than expected.

My estimated EDD was 22nd Nov base on date. But at its 2cm size then, the edd became 18 Nov lol!

太补了?

Not exactly a bad thing. But we walked out of the clinic feeling all excited and erm mix feeling. Ok la finally can confirm im really preg and can tell my parents already. We didnt dare to tell them because scare anything wrong make them happy for nothing.

Next appointment at Week 11 - gonna go for Oscar Test (Down syndrome) Lets keep our fingers cross that all is healthy and happy! 👌🤞

Heres the very first pic of baby ixxi:

Wednesday, 18 April 2018

How ixxi came about

Okay so heres the main purpose of why im blogging back, cause i hope i can look back in years to come and read back how i felt/ what i experienced and hopefully able to share on how this journey ahead.

In mid feb, lehubz and I decided to try for a baby because 1. this year is dog year, 2. i dun mind having a piglet next year and 3. i didnt wan a rat lol! We didnt specifically count any ovulation date or whatsoever and just let nature take its course. In late feb he went Germany for 10 days while I happily went bkk with Poon and Panda. I had the feeling that i MIGHT be pregnant and so i avoided tummy massage.

Back in SG the feeling got stronger and I kept pestering le hub to acc me buy the kit. (ok thou im married but i still feel quite embarass to buy it) then the stupid husband keep saying: Aiya you wait till menses miss means tio already lor. 😒

So on 19 March 18, I met Ah Jess ( my friend whom we had our wedding on the same weekend as, and shes already preg) for lunch and she help me to huy the kit lol. She taught me to buy 2 of it : 1 cheap one (watson housebrand) and 1 more ex one (clear blue) so use use the cheap one first in case its negative so i wont waste money.

And then i went back to office and took. 😱

Just as i expected.

Ahjess was the first to noe lol! followed by my sis because i met my parents and her for dinner that night before gg home.

And when im back, this lame hub was playing game when i passed him the 2 kits in the packaging and he still ask me "what?" OMG SUPER WOLS. I had the 😑 face while waiting for his intelligence to come back and realised that i already tested.

took him 5 to 10 mins to digest and be happy. and then he started talking to tui non stop on how he gonna be a dad and tui be a uncle 🤦 lol!

Okay first part done. Damn hard to keep this a secret for the next 4 weeks until my scan at week 8 (for heartbeat).

Stay tuned.

Sunday, 15 April 2018

First Post of 2018 ❤🐶

Hello, im back! After disappearing for a good 1.5 years from this space. Didnt had the courage to pen down toytoy's passing 2 years back. She left us 1 week before our wedding, peacefully at Marina Barrage at night, with our family. And shes really blessed to have all the korkor zehzeh yiyi and uncles to send her off on her last trip.

Fastforwarding my life, we moved in officially to Kuchi home in Nov 2017 and Tui is officially back home with us after our honeymoon from Korea.

And i also took up Animal communications in the same month (one of the best life skill i have decided to invest myself in 😂). Because thanks to AC, I get to fulfill toytoys last wishes and brought her to Marina barrage. And i kid you not,i heard her saying thank you to me that night before she left. Its a weird feeling, but you just know its her.

Will talk more about Animal comm in details/ a separate post next time.

For the whole of 2017, I had been focusing mainly on building Making Mermaids - my little humble online shop selling mermaid theme handmade accessories for pets, babies and adults!

Chionged a total of 15 events +/- in the years, seeing how my customer base grew and came back to support me. Made alot of new friends and all. Truly blessed!

As for Tui, he had lots of adventures last year too! I havent been socialising him with other dogs for a long time as i always feel that he has dog aggression and will growl everytime a dog comes near. Until we were invited to Aiden's birthday party. It was Tui's first doggy party and i told him pls dun throw my face and be good ok.

The moment he met aiden, my jaw drop. he actually went over to sniff and wagged his tail OMG. plus aiden is a male dog leh!!! So from then onwards we had quite a few play dates venturing different parts of Singapore.. From Botanical garden to Seletar Aerospace, to bukit timah nature park etc.

Tui also has a girl friend who lived in the same block as us call bubu. shes probably the 2nd friend tui has and can get along well with ❤

Then came Ice and Joyjoy into our lives. I was longing for another shihtzu and i came across Ice adoption pic on fb. went to the drive and saw ice + joy. Joy resembles too much like toytoy and i jus couldnt take my eyes off her. Eventually on 19 april 17, Mummy adopted Joyjoy while Elise and I brought Ice out of the shelter and elise has been fostering her for the longest time. She stay over at my placr whenever her foster parents has to go overseas. And tui is incredibly patient with her. Im amazed.

Ice just went for her homestay 2 weeks ago and is pending to firm her adoption this week.

Wah sibeh long. for more detail snippets need to refer to Facebook post sia.

Ok actually this post is suppose to talk abt something else but well i guess i need to update on what happen in the last 1.5 yrs so can read back next time.

Next post soon!

Tuesday, 19 July 2016

26 basic things you will need for your new home

Just gotten your keys to your new home?
In the midst of renovation/moving in? 
Planning for a stayover at the new place?

Last weekend, we stayed over at our new place as the renovation had finally completed. While waiting for our furnitures etc to arrive, we thought, why not bring fatty swissroll back too!

Anyway, thats not the mainpoint. Lol.


Here are some basic/不起眼/ things you won't realise its important till you need it (and I personally think you will need to prep before hand):

1) Wet wipes / magic clean wipes


You will need to clean or wipe the floor here and there- these will come useful.

2) Mop and pail

3) Rags rags and more rags
Not sure is it us but we really bought quite alot of rags - one for wiping furniture, one for kitchen table tops, one for dining table, one for Tui's paw and a few more spare ones lying around.

4) Scissors
Somehow you will need to come certain things so yea, a scissors will come in handy.

5) Pen
Signing of invoices/ writting down groceries checklist aiya wont hurt to have one pen in the house. Le hubz needed it and asked if i have one tt time, i have tons! Cos i carry the whole pencil case everywhere.

6) Trolley
This is one thing we didnt prepare but heng our neighbour has it. Else most of the time you'll need to lug the things up and down.

7) Cups


We were so qi liang cause we thought cups are not important. But when we bought a 1.5l of sprite, its quite gross to drink directly from the bottle if you are sharing or you plan to survive on that for one two days. Therefore le hubz came up with this idea - he cut the 500ml coke bottle he used before and made it into a cup. Hahaha which was very useful!

8) Utensils
Lol! Somebody say its not important hor.. if you are thinking.. aiya can get those disposal ones when you dabao food ma. Yes, you are right. BUT WHAT IF YOU FORGOT?!
because thats what i did hahahhaha. I ta bao-ed Nasi lemak and walked all the way back before realising i forgot to take cutlery (and im already at my block downstairs). Luckily its nasi lemak and not ban mian else idk how is he going to eat man...

9) Toilet paper
Need not to say right. Unless you want to use your socks or the rags to clean lor.

10) Tool box
Every house, no, is everyman needs to own a tool box hahaha (not applicable to me cause i have no idea how to use and their names except for hammer). If you have d.i.y furnitures e.g those from Ikea you cannot dont have them. But please hor, dont buy those cheap cheap one! 便宜没好货. Le hubz bought one $8.50 or something and it went out of shape after setting up half a shelve. 😑

11) Trash bag/ many many plastic bag
Cant remember how many bags of rubbish we threw away in that 2 days sia. Damm kuazhang. Oh that being said, its good to have a basic rubbin bin at home too. Anyway if you buy those groceries sure will have tons of plastic bags one haha. Don't throw them right away!!

12) Towels
You will need to bath right!!! Ahbo how to dry yourself? Air dry???

13) Toiletries: Shampoo/body wash/ facial wash/ tooth brush and toothpaste
No need to explain unless you usually bath with water only

14) Batteries (optional)
For clocks or things that need to be battery operated.

15) 3M tapes and hooks

We went to buy a few times because there are really many things to hook esp if you want to dry your rags

16) Kettle
We also thought this is not really a necessity until....
When you are freaking hungry, you have cup noodles and tap water but NO HOT WATER. So yah. Pls. Just get one. Giant sell very cheap only $9.90 for a basic one and $19.90 for a chio one. We bought the chio-er one of course. #totallyworthit

17) Handsoap
If you dont want to waste your shampoo/body wash everytime you dirty your hands. Haha we bought one dettol one very nice smell 3 bottles for i forgot how much cause not i buy one. Lol!

18) Basic pot 
We needed that to boil meat for fatty tui

19) Mama lemon
To wash the pots and utensils yo.

20) Floor detergent 
Forgot to add in this. Hahaha it comes with the mop and pail. One of the first few things we buy when we just gotten our keys.

21) Broom and dustpan
Okay this too!

22) Doormat
It can get really slippery after you come out of the toilet. Thankful that we had a free door mat when we buy our carpet. And mama gave us one too!

23) If you are staying over...



Best to standby some "blanket" cos it can get a lil chilly at night (even without aircon!). Tips: go ikea!! We bought 3 throws at $2.90 each only. Super useful. We use it to cover our sofa~

24) Instant food

This one damn nice. Dont say i never share!
Magee/ instant mash potato/ instant pasta whatever it is, its good to have food. Esp if you are living at some where that is not accessible to food OR you are as lazy as my sis. :X

25) Packet drinks
This one deplete super fast. Lol. When people come you can at least treat them a drink. Tio bo?

26) HP Charger! 
No comp no tv no internet, the least you need is to have a workable mobile phone. Not to mention all the deliveryman will start calling you to double confirm delivery! Rmb to set your phone on NON-SILENT MODE. I am too use to be on total silent mode so I missed a few calls. opps.

End of my list for now. Hope it gets you prepared and avoid the trouble to go out and buy at the last minute.
Of course, each household will have different needs and it also depends on your house's readiness - where is it fully renovated and functional or not.

Have fun!!!

Monday, 11 July 2016

Checklist for Pre-wedding Photoshoot with Dogs



Omgz. This draft has been stored here since forever. 

4 months back, we did our pre-wedding shoot over at Farmway together with Toytoy and Tui --- This is one of my dream wedding shoot location because the shelter is a very special place to the 4 of us. I met Tui there when I first started volunteering, and then le hubz as he joined later on, followed by the fatty Toytoylim who was rescued from there too!

These 2 fatties have been in our lives ever since we met, went through our pak tor times, as well as witnessing our ROM, so now, how can we, ok maybe its just me, leave them out for such an important documenting event?!

Okay, let's talk about
WHAT TO PREPARE FOR YOUR PRE-WEDDING SHOOT
if you plan to include your dogs
( Paiseh, I have no experience with other animals therefore unable to share much haha). 


Few months before the shoot, I started window shopping for Toytoy and Tui's outfit online. Back then I still had no idea how to shop from taobao and so I got their stuffs from Aliexpress, and here's what I bought: 

Toytoy - White wedding dress which, IMO, not as nice as her ROM dress but no fish prawn also good.

USD $3 nia!



Tui - Due to his size, it is either very hard to find a tux/suit that fits him or it is way above my budget so I decided to get him a more elaborated bow-tie instead. Ahem, still very handsome okay.


USD $6


cheap cheap kalipok!

I wanted to get matching silver weaved leash but it went out of stock and I didn't had enough time to get it before the shoot, so I made do with their usual leashes. 

Things to pack for the day:


(For Dogs)

  1. Their outfit (depends if you want to wear it in the studio/ at the location itself or prior to going there)
  2. Doggy Comb (If your dog has long "hair")
  3. Hair clips/ hair accessories (Toytoy had 2 simple clips which I bought from BKK Chaktuchak I whacked a whole row of clips for her)
  4. Water and water bowl (They need to stay hydrated if not will tio heat stroke man, you can get those foldable bowls from daiso or local pet shops)
  5.  Poo bag 
  6. High value treats / any food that your dog loves (this is to use as bait later on)
  7. Squeaky toys (if your dog prefers toy over food and it can be used to capture their attention for the camera)
  8. Wet tissue/  Tissue (Just in case they poop and you need to wipe their butt butt)
  9. Collar and leash
  10. Good friends/family members who can handle your dog(s) well (*** This is also important because without Jacq and Javin, we wouldn't be able to cope with that 2 monsters, I was too busy carrying my long gown)


(For Humans)
  1. Hair accessories of your own (e.g floral headbands etc)
  2. Black Bobby Pins (To pin up your loose hair along the way)
  3. Make up like foundation/concealor/loose powder/ lipstick/lipgloss/ eyebrow powder or pencil etc in case you need to touch up and your make up artist is not around.
  4. Slippers/flats (THIS ONE VERY VERY IMPORTANT especially if you can't walk in heels like me. The slippers really save my life hahaha. I was in my slippers 85% of the time)
  5. Props (Chalk board/ Banners/ Balloons/Pictures/Picnic baskets - which ever you like. In our case, the dogs were our props LOL! and followed by a precious packet of Truffle potato chips, a chalk board and some d.i.y-ed signs to hang around Tui's neck)
  6. Tissue tissue and more tissues! Same thing for wet tissues. You never know when you'll need it.
  7. Water/drinks
  8. Safety pins of different sizes 
  9. Big bag to put everything inside
  10. Electronic handheld fan/ those orbit orbit de manual fan 扇子 also can
  11. HANDPHONE CHARGER!!!
  12. Insect repellant (you will need it when you go to those bushy bushy ulu ulu places, trust me)
We did our indoor shoot and Javin managed to bring Toytoy to the studio before we leave.. so we get to take a few shots with her


this dog sibeh unglam one. -_-" #likeownerlikedog 

the 2 brides~ 
No, Toytoylim is not gonna get married to Tui because she has Johnjohn already. 



Bonsai uncle and aunty so cute, they were so happy and gave me an orchid plant as a gift ^^

We didn't had much behind the scene photos because all our phones died (from taking too much behind the scenes during the indoor shoot HAHAHAH). This is why you need item number 11.
& also by then poor Jacq and Javin already going crazy, because of the dogs and props. >.< really thankful for their help.

Le small dog likes to run away after we have set her into position. And when she's back, le big dog decided to look away. Our photographer also jin effort, he kept imitating a dog's bark (really sounds like!) to get the dogs' attention. My squeaky toy only work for Toytoy. Tui is too chill so food and toys all didn't work for him. T_T but i can say he is quite good at staying still (or is it because he is too lazy to move)

Here's some sneak peak of the end product from our shoot:

Gowns: Yvonne Creative
Makeup: Minnie Makeup Artist
Photographer: Shaun from YC
Dogs: Our own thou Mr Tui haven't go home yet, soon soon!
Props: D.i.yed
Location: Pasir ris farmway 2 (Old Ericsson Pet Farm) and along the road of Farmway 2 and 3 (opposite Pet Movers, beside the drain - unique place I know)
Time: About 2pm
SO HANDSOME I HAD TO GET THIS PHOTO. 
The dog i mean. :X

Featuring my d.i.y sign

Using potato chips to bribe Tui

Our grandfather's road for that moment. 

Love this pic of Toytoy but WHY ARENT YOU LOOKING AT THE CAMERA TUIIIIIIII!! T_T

This is how our relationship works in the family.

By this time Toytoy already want to pengsan already. 
oh ya!

REMEMBER TO SEND YOUR DOG FOR GROOMING BEFORE THE SHOOT. 
Don't be like me, sui bian sui bian and now regret because her whole face messy like siao char bor :/ Even the comb cannot help her.

Koped this idea from Google. Not bad lah hor? Except for the ugly drain barrier.

Dogs, dogs and more dogs as calefare! haha

Ok thats all for now, if not show you all everything, my actual day nothing to show liao. 


This is Xiaopang on the way home HAHHAHA:


Gonna turn in too. Goodnight folks!

Monday, 7 March 2016

ToyToy the pink tongue dog after 3 years

Was looking through my old post on Toytoy and realised... wow, it has been almost 3 years since she came into our lives. Looking back, she's still that silly little fat dog, just that shes even closer to us as a family now than ever. 

Toytoy now has an Instagram account of her own - @toytoylim, a joint facebook page with Tui - Toytoy and Tui Adventures (Initially I wanted to just do a Fb page for Tui alone, but then decided to combine both since weekdays I dont get to see Tui, haha so Toy will take over the weekdays slot).


During these 3 years, she has: 


1) accompanied my family and I through lots of life events

Through another 2 CNYs. Xmas. My Proposal and ROM.






Over at the new place!



2) Explored alot of new places with Tui.

Chinese garden

 Punggol end

Gardens By the Bay

 Sengkang Riverside Park



At home, lol , counted?

ECP 

 Marina Barrage
Pasir ris park


3) Went for quite a number of Shihtzu parties and dates together with her boyfriend JOhn John

Vday 2015


Celebrated her bday at iii cafe in 2014

First few big shihtzu gatherings we attended tgt.

Can u find us?

Toy and John's First couple wear during one of the shihtzu gatherings. And there's no turning back from then onwards..


My favorite couple wear of them, kindly sponsored by her Father-in-law




4) Her wardrobe increase in size from like 2 tops to 20 over tops + dresses + Overalls. Even more than le hubz. HAHAHA. Don't believe? Here you see..


she outgrew this mini tee i bought for her when she first came
... omg. so i bought another one exactly the same of a bigger size. #fattywoes.

Lelong lelong. Want Ong lai or Toytoy?


Her mom is a mermaid, so she became snowwhite
And then a hot dog

And then a Santarina

Her stripe dress from Bkk

Her ROM gown, eh no, is her gown during OUR ROM. She's still legally single.












Ok. End of toytoy fashion show. 

 
This is like 1/5 of her total collection. Faint. #shopaholicmom


5) Took a few angbao during CNY


6) Went for her first swim at Mutts and Mitten with Tui




7) Visited the vet like at least 5 times more because of skin problem/ ear infection/ laosai/ blood in pee yada yada. 

still so happy
 Almost can be VIP liao. 

On one fateful day... she drop us alot of bombs

And now... we are trying out new remedies to see if can help her.


8) Got herself lots of new toys thanks to Uncle Philip and Tui . HAHA.



thats like 1/20 of her toy collection. she has a valid reason behind her name.


9) Went for family photoshoot with us back in 2014

*Note: THIS IS THE TOP WHICH SHE COULDNT FIT AFTER 1 YR PLUS* Refer to the pic at the top of the post






10) Tried a few more hairstyles
winkwink


Mohawk

Top knot

China Gu Niang?

Side Parting

Or short?
Which is nicer?

11) Made a few more friends

Weirdly, her friends are usually Non-canine



Ok except for Toffee perhaps.



12) Went on her first bus-ride


I almost had an heart attack when she start to "snore" and sneeze -_-


And the things that doesn't change about her...


 1) The way she sleeps and snore. #lastwarning





............





2) Sibeh lazy during walks

This is what we end up with everytime haha

3) The Nua-ness


"Do anything to me, i don't give a damn"

I can even be a dog statue!

 4) Her little pink tongue

I cannot get enough of this face. Really.




Anywhere, everywhere. 


We are so blessed to have you in our lives xiao fei aka xiao pang aka toytoylim aka lil monster aka pangpang aka whatever you are called. Even thou you like to bully us but we hope you will lead a healthy and happy life till as long as possible. MUACKS.