Sometimes

Its day 19, and today is the first day that tui has to be alone at home the whole day since diAgnosis as both of us had to go back office and linda is also not working from hone. 

Wore the diaper for him and he actually slept in the room the whole day from 7am to 6plus when i got home. He didnt move or flinch for 7 hrs, and there about occassional shifting so i couldnt see him on camera.

I was so worried tt he will soil himself the whole day and i checked the cctv i think about 20 to 30 times. 

Tried to comm him and he said he went off while leaving his body there since nobody is home, and that he will be back when we are back. To my surprise when i chiong home, he didnt pee at all!!! Neither did he drink or touch his breakfast :/

Brought him out for dinner with papa and gang at punggol container and he was having a time of his life parading in the pram...

That aside.. 

Sometimes i really feel so tired and helpless that i dont have enough time and energy for everything.

My day is basically work, come back settle aiden, settle whatever i can for tui, his food, cleaning him , bringing him for walks, reiki him if got extra time, and massaging him and feeding meds, putting aiden to bed.

This week i had to do 1 hr of self reiki in prep for my reiki2 this weekend. After reiki sometimes i had to clear some animal comm sessions and i al left with no time to really bond with the husband.

And the husband has been very emo these days. Idk how to help. And i am so tired, no matter how i ask him it wont be able to help the situation. I wont have enough love to go around as much as i want to show him some love.

I noe everyday is a routine. And everyday i had no choice but to place him as the last for attention because one too young, one dying.  And i feel selfish for even gg for my reiki course and that i had to spend 1 hr to myself ..

But.. 

I guess i have to hang on...

Not sure if we will ever be happy.