Monday 19 October 2015

The proposal

The proposal




Ello! We are back!
Past few months has been sooo hectic I couldn’t really find time to update this space properly. Apart from the fact that nothing much has been happening in the shelter. Haha. 


And yes, I am here to update about The Proposal before I start procrastinating till 2055..



Background: 
Last October, Mr Wai suddenly jio me to apply for BTO one fine day while we were walking Tui at Pasir Ris beach. (IKR Singaporean way of proposing). -___-“ it was so random I couldn’t digest this “invitation”. We were just sitting at the bench and there's this couple happen to hold their ROM/wedding at the beach's cafe then he suddenly ask me. And I was still thinking, wah piang so hot. later the make up all melt. zzz. 


Ok, fast forwarding our lives, we applied for Sales of Balance in Nov 2014 (Reason for choosing balance flat is partly because we hope to bring tui home before its too late. (Count: In 2012 Tui was about 2 yr old, if we were to apply standard BTO, we can only get keys in 2019/2020, by then he already like lao kok kok already..). 

Got our ballot number in February and we were lucky to have gotten 61 / 121 units in SK area. 

Came the day on 13 May 2015, we finally confirmed plus chop on our very own house when we selected our unit at HDB ^^ After one whole night of not being able to sleep because we really had limited choices on the units we wanted (PS: I super kia su because appointment at 11am I dragged Ahwai to HDB at 8am HAHAHA thought can jump queue but end up fail). But lao tian bo bi … we got what we aimed for and it turn out to be really good location. And on this very day, we got to know that we will collect keys on the 4th Quarter of this year instead of 2016 and we had to produce our marriage cert!!! *FAINT* We kept thinking its Oct 2016 then that will be perfect~  But oh well. That’s when we start to rush everything within the next few months. 

We decided to hold our Solemnization in October because 1. We might collect keys anytime between Sept to Dec, Oct sounds like a good choice in between. 2. Oct is also our Pat-torversary, 3. 10.10 falls on a Sat! So why not!

Wah I wrote so much but yet to reach anything on the proposal @.@ Please bear with me. Too much things to fill you guys up with. I shall stop talking about the ROM for now, shall leave it for another post ;) Ok, back to the proposal..


I’ve told Ahwai from the start that I don’t need an extravagant proposal, no need firework or book the whole restaurant, its as easy as 1 2 3 with one condition.. JUST BRING MY 2 DOGS ON THAT DAY. I even gave him ideas like can get the dogs to hold the ring and give me (Or was it I ownself imagine but nv tell him ah? Shit. Memory failing me). 

But as days, weeks and months passed by.. he like no action leh?! So I kept bugging him that : Eh! No time already please. Oct coming liao!! Until I only feel irritated with myself.

One day when we happen to bring Tui to Bedok Reservoir on a weekend, we passed by the Forest Adventure and he had this stupiddddd idea to go and book a slot for BOTH OF US! Hello! I never say I want to join u leh. Can I sit there with the dog and cheer u???

I thought he was joking… and that after a few weeks he forgotten. (*Secretly happy in my heart, no need to go*) but another fine weekend.. He SUDDENLY REMEMBER!!! -_-. So while I was having my brunch he brought Tui over to the booth and booked. Im like sian diao… this time cannot siam.


18th July 2015


Woke up in the morning, still in denial that I need to climb trees afterwards, I was seriously praying that its gonna rain before we start, but sadly that didn’t happen. 

Upon reaching reservoir, I had this very strong and strange feeling that something is not right. The idea of proposal strike me and my heart was thumping very fast. Im like, don’t tell me its today. I AM NOT PREPARED OMG . As we walked towards the adventure booth, I saw people setting up party decoration and I almost hyperventilate in my heart……………………..

Then I realised.. Eh.. Ang mor. Ok, lame. Not even my friends or fam Think too much. HAHAHHA!!!

So we proceeded to the counter, filled up the forms and went to put our stuff in the locker. Le bf was checking on his phone at the very last min which I find it fishy so I attempted to peep and saw: Sembawang airbase. Ok, boring. (Work stuff again). 



I was dreading the whole time but slowly resigned to fate that I have to complete these courses no matter what. By the 2nd rope ladder my hands already jelly liao. The only fun thing was the zip line which I only have to sit and zoom down. No prizes for guessing what my facial expression was though out haha. One thing I need to point out was le bf was very supportive and encouraging during the whole activity (thou he failed to motivate me in anyway.) Halfway through our 2nd zip, there’s this uncle video-ing us and when we land he was commenting: Wah very nice ah … I want take video and show my daughter so she can come also. Then he show us the video. Lol . Like that also can.
Fast forwarding >>>>>>> Else u all will fall asleep liao. Usually Ahwai will be the one to go first because I kia si. So same goes for the last zip line which leads us back to the main area. After he zip over, I was the only one left at the whole course. -___-. Abit scared. But at the same time I was thinking: Eh if I just sit here don’t go down can anot ah? Enjoy the breeze and maybe they will have to run back to check on me after sometime. Who ask them to put me as last one. But then after 1 min I decided to go la hahah. #useless. 



Ok, as I was approaching the finishing pit, I saw this girl standing at the pit video-ing me like STRAIGHT IN MY FACE. My first thought was: This siao lang?! Need to video so near anot?! Why all the people today like to video other people.
As I get nearer I realise why this girl seksek one…………………………EH LOOK LIKE MY SIS LEH!!


Den I look at the ground area… EH!!! WHY EVERYBODY HERE?!


Guess what was I complaining?


Shit man i look like pumpkin -_-


Before I can digest, le bf already took the bouquet over and said some stuff I still cannot process but the next thing I said was: Tui!!! HAHAHA. Because Tui and Toytoy were present too! :DDD He was wagging his tail at me, awwww. 


And so the proposal happened. I shall not elaborate because I was so paiseh. 








My handsome boyfriend waiting for me..


while toytoylim wait until want pengsan liao:



You all want to know ah? Go watch the proposal video specially recorded and edited by my sis <3 Love her so much. And of course a big thanks to now le HUSBAND for planning the proposal way back like 2 months before. And also not forgetting to bring my 2 Ts plus my all my close friends and mama and your sis and brother in law and jonanthan ~ 

PS: Oh you know hor... Actually his whatsapp chat the Sembawang Airbase one is actually the Proposal group chat!!! Wah this guy, so smart. He say cause once i see sembawang airbase I sure switch off one. And wont suspect. LOL!!! This one i give u 5 stars for knowing me so well. HAHA.