Animal Communication - Convo with Tui

Despite speaking and connecting with so many other animals, I seldom have proper comm with my own dog. Because he complained to my friends that I talk too much. LOL. So recently I decided to dial on him and asked him a few things about the plans in the coming month.

He reluctantly accepted to talk because it was his napping time and he hates to talk during the day time. LOL.


Me: Hows your leg nowadays?
Tui: Seems fine for now. sometimes sore.
Me: Aching?
Tui: Here and there, but i can walk.

Me: Do u wan to go for another swim at Hydrocanine?
Tui: "I like the car ride but i dun like the swim. Water too cold. And why must they force me (to swim/ into the water). He say "i can float (dun need to swim)"
Me: Its for your legs ma. (Cause he has suspected arthritis and muscle wastage on his hind legs)
Tui:  but it does help
Me: So how? Wan go another time?
Tui: "u all decide la. i just wanna slp. if u wan me go den i go lor. make it fast

Me: Would u like to go for another outing with Aiden (like legit Aiden the SS, not my baby) ?
Tui: denden ah? ya lor so long never see him already. he wan come and play? saw an image of denden at our gate.

Me: Anywhere u wanna go before i pop?
I was telling him not much time left and thou i cant walk long for now we wan to bring him out another time.
Tui: i know ah, u have been telling me. anywhere is fine i guess, with u all.

I saw a quick image of bedok reservoir.
Tui: Its ok, u rest. and sth like he can jus walk around our hse area
Me: Try to list some places la.
Tui: Bishan.
Me:  Why there?
He say there feels spacious.

Me: U got anything to tell me?
Tui: My food.. dun put__.. (didnt specify wad was it).  i dun like"

I thinking is it the supplement powder LOL.
Tui: Coconut (oil) I like.

Me: Will you be ok with the confinement nanny? (Shows him an image of her in our house)
Tui: she dun disturb me can lo. i will try to be nice

Me: She needs to walk around the hse, u ok?
Tui: i ok. (den shows an image of him with head melting on the floor, den his eyes will follow the CL to see what shes doing)
Tui: she lead her life i lead my life. but she cannot go MBR. that one is MY (tui's) room. I'll be watching her.

Tui: Sigh can u let me sleep already anot?
Me:  Ok la later come home i bring you go gaigai.
Tui: Ok come back soon, see u later. bye.


LOL. I sound like a needy gf trying to strike more convo with a uninterested boyfriend. tsktsk.

Week 33 - Talking to baby and false contractions

Oh hi! Im back after that emo day and thankfully Ive managed to pick my emotions up and count my blessings.

Week 30 > 32 > 33

Weight gained check: 10kg.
Before Preg: 54/55kg (too good life)
Current/ Last weighed at Week32: 65kg
Baby's weight: 2.1kg 

It's the last few days of September, and with October approaching, it means we are left with about 4 to 5 weeks before baby comes (anytime).

Looking forward to Oct because it's a month full of anniversaries and celebration (if we ever do). HAHA.

6th and 7th Oct - Reiki Class ( I hope im able to survive 2 whole days of this course)
10th Oct - ROM-versary
15th Oct - Gynae appointment (Swab test and Whooping cough jab)
16th Oct - Anniversary
21st Oct - Pattor-versary
24th Oct - Start of my leave/ working from home and counting down to Aiden's arrival. 
28th Oct / 29th Oct - Tuitui's official 2nd year of homecoming day with us <3
29th Oct - Waxing appointment (Not sure if baby will come any time earlier than that but ya please just baked a lil longer ok). 

For a record, I went to the salon yesterday to get my haircut and the person was blow drying my hair. And i heard baby saying "mummy, its very noisy again" LOL. #can. The last time he complained that it was noisy and disturbing his sleep was when I went to the dental for cleaning of my teeth. And the drilling sound was quite loud.

Few days ago i casually asked baby when will he be out and i got the number 25.  So I was like , oh yea 25th Oct seems fine, thou a lil early and its the 2nd day of my leave -_-. Then i looked at my phone and saw the date 25th (Sept) too.

That evening, I had a "contraction" episode and it was so freaking painful like food poisoning and you wanna laosai feel. It come and go within a few min but will be back in 10-15mins again. Was so scared that its gonna be early labour. Went to the toilet 3 times and thankfully by the last time (i had diarrhoea) and it stopped. WAS PRAYING SO HARD HE DIDNT MEAN TO COME OUT ON 25TH SEPTEMBER SIA. Cause lehubz was in Malacca for work trip. And its really too early for him to be out now. So I told baby, please choose a day your father is around. Not now not now.


Ok, till then!

Week 31 - Goodbye Pregnancy Honeymoon

It's been about a week since i step into 3rd trim? I don't know if due to me mentally thinking that its harder to go through 3rd trim, or it really is - physically. But this one week its really quite bad.

The aches (which is always there, got worse.)
The bump (which was fine and tolerable became very heavy and hard and constantly stretching its very gaoweh. Especially when I sleep at night cause I cannot find a proper sleeping position. Everytime i need to turn to move to a new position is like want my life.)
The itch (isnt helping at all, but im glad it got slightly better after seeing GP and getting the itchy med + new cotton panties)
The rage of emotions ( I used to feel i can still maintain it quite well but today is just very very down + negative. Maybe coupled with the soreness of body + having to walk tui 2 times this morning, rushing for work, the heat and sweat and long journey.. not to mention about the disturbing dream i had abt p. It kept haunting me.  i already cannot sleep properly liao and when i do, these kinda dreams appear. fml. )

I feel so pekcek now i wanna cry, but like no valid reason to thou. just... very pekcek at everything.

It's my last mermaid event this weekend, pet fiesta. But you know, sitting on the floor doing the bowties used to be enjoyable. but now i had to tahan to do it bcos i have to do it. the back is breaking everytime i sit, and i feel shitty when i have to get up to get some materials or packing stuff from else where.

I hate it when things drop on the floor or i had to pick up stuff from the floor (e.g kio-ing tui's bowl or putting it down, refilling his water cos i need to bend , and i need to hold my breath everytime i do it).

Den when yesterday i told ahwai hes the light master, key master, curtain master, rubbish master, pick shit master and wipe paw master and wash clothes master. he ask me den wad master am i.

i said im dog master. but apart from that idk wad i am already. felt so useless at that moment.
and with the bump getting in the way these days, alot of things that i used to be able to do, i dun feel like doing anymore (like sitting on the floor to wipe tui's paw bcos its very xinku), which in turn it might become ahwai's job also. And i can foresee i wont be able to bath tui soon also.. cause it requires alot more bending. den it will fall on ahwai again.

den wad can i do?!

i dun wan to jus be lieing down there doing nth like a fei ren. i want to be able to move about mobilely... happily and bring tui out more/ spend more time with him before baby comes. I want to be able to contribute to the household also.


why did i choose this path .... :(

Week 30 - 10 more weeks of freedom

hi baby,

We finally hit the 3rd trimester and you have been a good boy so far.

Quite thankful that it has been a smooth pregnancy so far except for some super itchy xxx and backaches which i think most people suffered from.

Done the GD Test in week 23 and HENG AH I PASSED. lol. Really fingers crossed cause i never purposely control or be strict with my sugar intake.

I would like to take this chance to record down and thank your papa for being such a supportive and loving hub throughout.
Getting or making food that we wanted to eat, and also helping me to apply stretchmark oil every other night.

Now that november is drawing nearer and nearer, its abit scary + nervous how our lives will be after u are out.. And i really wonder how u will look like hahahaha.

Its a busy 2 months:

Sept - make mooncake + ur papa bday + pet fiesta event next week. Need to chiong out Xmas and CNY bows too.

Oct - all the anniversaries + reiki course + weekly gynae visits before i go on leave to work from home.

So pls bake till mid november if can alright! Let me clear more checklist and enjoy a lil more 2 person time and we will put in our very best once u are out.

And pls pls be best friend with tui. ♥