Thursday 5 July 2018

Week 16: The unexpected gender reveal

Time flies and we are at the halfway mark of this whole pregnancy journey. 4 weeks ago, we had another appointment with our vet, lol erm no, GYNAE!!! I wasn't really prepared to know the baby's gender but mouth itchy and ask the doctor : "now can know gender already not ah?" 


He did not reply me.. and continued scanning, while explaining that baby is normal...blabla.. this is the baby's xxx... and suddenly he said: THERE SEE THIS IS THE KUKUBIRD!

DAAANGGGGZZZZZZ. Totally can feel the whole room's atmosphere crumbling down. Especially when I look at le hubz's expression LOLOL (He looked like he failed his major exam and cannot graduate). I know how much he wanted a girl/ anticipated for one, as much as I was quite disappointed with the revelation, I tried to comfort and tell him that "Aiya nevermind, please accept reality" #butobviouslyhecannot. After which I bet none of us remembered what the doctor said as he continued....

Lehubz then ask: "What are the chances of him becoming a girl during the next scan?" *Feeling hopeful*

Dr: This one so obvious already wont wrong one lah. 1%. #can


DAAAANGGGGZZZZZ. #hopesdashed 

We walked out feeling all complicated and unable to digest what we just heard. Because it was so sudden we weren't prepared to accept the reality. On the way back, to soothe our emotions, we started to brain storm names for boys (because we have been thinking about girl's name all the while only LOLOL).  

That helped a little. But hub says lets hope it's a finger or hand. Cannot confirm till the detailed scan/ when baby is born *Facepalm*

Here's the legendary kukubird picture:



Monday 2 July 2018

Save meeee!

Rant post.

One thing about pregnancy that hits my threshold is probably how ppl keep dictating or nagging me about wad i can do or cannot do.

I did read up and research on some.  And i know its "for my own good" "if not u will regret next time" "if not next time ur baby come out u die xxxx" "if not u old liao will have body ache"

Cannot drink cold drink
Cannot drink caffeine
Cannot eat sugary stuff
Cannot jump
Cannot run
Cannot bath
Cannot bring baby out after sunset
Cannot this
Cannot that

放过我吧...